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Quote of The Day: Do you know what is the REAL HAPPINESS?



What is happiness?

快乐是什么?


“The simplest questions are usually the hardest to answer” -Anonymous-
“最简单的问题常常是最难的” -无名-


What is happiness? What is REAL happiness?


Is it Money? You feel happy when you have much
money like Bill Gates or Warren Buffet? Is it your definition of happiness?

or

Is it because you are CEO of the biggest company in the world?
You have power and it let you feel happy? Is it your definition of happiness?

OR

The 26rd episode of 家N次方 tell you the truth of REAL HAPPINESS

(太感人了,真让我无话可说)




the dialogue between Chu Mu (楚牧) and Xue Yang (薛洋)
may help you to find the answer of this question...



楚:你认为快乐跟贫富有直接的关系吗?
Chu: Do you think happiness with wealth have a direct relationship?


薛:要不然所有人追逐成功名利为了什么呢?找不快乐吗?你建这个小农场,不也是 在追逐成功,为了拥有更多财富,如果财富绘制你不快乐,干嘛这么努力呢?
Xue: Everyone else chasing the success for what? Because they cannot find happiness,right?You build this little farm, which is also in the pursuit of success, in order to have more wealth,right? if wealth does not make you happy, why do so much effort?


楚:建这个小农场是我的梦想,人活着总得有梦想吧,要不然活着多枯燥啊!我确实 希望这个小农场能够成功,也希望自己应此能够拥有一些财富。但这些都不是我 人生中最重要的东西,我也不可能因为这些而真真地得到快乐。
Chu: Build this little farm is my dream, someone live,must have a dream, or life will be so boring! I really hope this little farm succeed, and I'm able to have some of this wealth. But these aren't the most important things in life, because I can not get true happiness only from this wealth.


所谓真正的快乐,我觉得,并不是所谓的这些,生不带来死不带去的东西,如果 你拥有了,可你身边连一个称得上是家人或者是朋友的人都没有,你心里面空荡 荡的,你忘记什么叫做惦记,什么叫做温暖,什么叫做感动了,那么就算你站在 这整个世界的最顶端,你富有地可以把这整个地球买下来又怎样呢?能让你真正 得到快乐吗?
true happiness, I think, is not caused by these 'when-you-born-you-don't-bring- and-when-you-died-you-also-don't-bring (refer to wealth) , if you don't have anyone to be called a family or friends, your heart is empty, you forget what is called to thinking about other, what is the meaning of warm, what is the meaning moved, even if you stand on top of the whole world, and you can buy the entire planet ?Does it make you truly happy?



我觉得其实人一辈子最大的财富,不是别的,就是人,是不论你成功或者是失 败,富有或者贫穷,都愿意跟你一起分享,一起经历的那些人,还有在这个过程 中,你和她们之间越来越无法割舍的那份牵绊。
I think the most important treasure in our life, not 'things' but 'people' , whether you are fail or success, whether you are poor or rich, willing to share everything with you, willing to throughout everything with you, and after all this experience, the relationship between you and them get tighter day by day..


我说我能想象得出这个农场未来的模样,其实并不是说他的规模有多么的宏大, 有多么的辉煌,而是我觉得咱们一家人可以一起为这个小农场,每天就这么忙忙 碌碌的,说说笑笑的,就一家人一直在一起,这个就是我想要的,就是快乐。
I said I can imagine the future of the farm looks like, in fact, is not to say how its grand scale, how brilliant it is, but I think we can work together as a family in this little farm, bustling everyday, and laugh, and one big family been together forever, this is what I want , it is happiness.



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Quote of The Day: What does family mean for you?


What does family mean for you?

Maybe, 23rd episode of <家N次方> will help you to get the answer..

In the 23rd episode there's a dialogue between
a father Xue Mao Xiang (薛茂祥) and his son Xue Yang( 薛洋)





The father said : (It's really touch my heart)

"金钱和事业,一场金融风暴和一场商战就前功尽弃化为乌有,

但是薛洋,你记住只有家不论天塌地陷,世事变迁,

总有一扇门为你打开着,总有人在里边等着你,

不离不弃的守着你,直到生命最后终止的地方。"


"Money and business,

when facing a financial crisis and business competitions,

will completely destroyed.

However, Xue Yang, you have to remember ,

only home regardless dreadful calamity,or things change,

There's always an open door for you, always waiting for you,

Guarding you and never betray you, until the end of life. "

Quote from Mainland 2011 Television Drama : <家N次方>

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Quote of The Day




Recently I watch a Mainland Drama, about family, love, and life ..
I has been a long long time for me to watch any kind of drama
that as GREAT as this one.. (please notice I wrote 'great'
with all capital letter and bold font, LOL) ..
这电视剧是我这近年来,最牛的电视剧!太棒了!
If you are tired of nonsense-boring-exaggerate dramas ,
I am really recommend you to watch this drama :





I like one character in this drama, 薛之力 Xue Zhi Li..
I think she's the sample for what-is-called as a perfect girl.
She pretty, smart, have enough wisdom for such a young girl like her,
and understand other people feeling.




In the 21st episode, she said (I LOVE THIS!) :

"其实我只是明白一个道理,就是所有敌对的开始,就是一个悲剧的开始。无论任何时候,你在必须面对的时候,所选择的态度,其实就已经决定了整件事情的走向和结局。包容和接纳就是祥和和喜剧,挑剔和敌对就一定争吵和悲剧。"

quote from mainland drama 家N 次方, 薛之力。爱死薛之力,够智慧!
赞~\(≧▽≦)/~ ~\(≧▽≦)/~~\(≧▽≦)/~


"In fact, I just understand the principle that all hostile start, is the beginning of a tragedy, whether at any time, when you have to face a problem, the choice of your attitude, deciced the direction of the whole thing.Harmony and tolerance and acceptance is a happy ending. Critical and hostile bickering certainly a tragedy. "

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勿以善小而不为,勿以恶小而为之




Today (2011.6.11), Ningbo University's students visit an orphanage. At there a lot of children without parents, either because they got a serious illness or because of disability so abandoned by their parents. I can not imagine how does it feel if you have no parents. Compared with them, I am certainly very happy.

Through this event we want to give them a little love, give them a little tender. Although we can not do much, I only hope that through this event,the orphanshave sweet memories. It makes me feel very happy to see them smile .See those innocent faces with the smiles hanging in their faces,I just truly understand the meaning of : "give roses as gifts, our hand will left lingering fragrance."

Moreover,I think it should be me thank the orphans because they really taught me a lot. Teach me, don't always complain, should give thanks for everything I have now (• ˘ з ˘ •) ♥



before we go back to our campus, take a picture! little friends, say chesse!



this orphan is an autism..
it's quite hard for me and Theo to play with him
but, we try our best to make her laugh, and she laugh .. haha..
I told her I will reward her a lollipop if she can draw a nice picture..
she happily answered me: ok O (∩ _ ∩) O ~



I with aldo help the orphans stick wallpapers.
help them decorated their walls.
we played really happy. They are so smart and cute,
also,the wallpapers were sticked so well ~ (˘ ▽ ˘ ~) (~ ˘ ▽ ˘) ~


Today's event really give me a deep impression. God always bless those orphans.(◕ ‿ ◕ ✿)

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勿以善小而不为,勿以恶小而为之

今天(2011.6.11)我们宁波大学的留学生们一起去一家孤儿院。在那边有很多没有父母的孩子们,有的是因为得了严重疾病或者因为残疾所以被人家遗弃。我真不敢想象小时候没有父母,被自己的家人丢掉的感觉。与他们相比,我是无疑很幸福的,我能感受到父母的爱。



通过这次活动我们想给他们一点爱,给他们一点温柔。虽然我们可能不能做很多,我只希望通过这次活动那些孤儿们会有美好的回忆。看到他们的笑容也让我自己觉得很幸福的,看到他们的笑容我才真正理解所谓:“送人玫瑰,手有留余香” 。


我觉得应该是我感谢他们那些孤儿们,他们其实教我很多。教我,不要一直抱怨,应该凡事谢恩。



我们首先介绍我们自己,然后向孤儿们唱一首歌《给我们不能停止的爱》,其次由OLIVER 单独表演,弹其他。孤儿们看起来很欣赏我们的表演,不过他们最最欣赏的是:我们的礼物就是吃的东西,零食,糖,多颜色的蜡笔!呵呵 他们都是满面红光地盯着我们准备的礼物,太可爱了
(•˘з˘•)♥



回家之前我们跟他们一起拍照片!小朋友们向相机笑!
say chesse!




这位孩子得了自闭症,他和别人沟通有阻碍。
不过他看到我们俩笑,他也会跟着我们一起笑,
我哄哄他,说如果他画得好,我会悬赏他一个棒棒糖。。
O(∩_∩)O~他笑着回答我:“好滴”



我和aldo帮孤儿们贴墙纸。
他们都玩儿的蛮高兴。他们又聪明又可爱,真讨人喜欢,
墙纸贴得真不错~(˘▽˘~)(~˘▽˘)~



我选择“勿以善小而不为,勿以恶小而为”当我这次博客blog的标题因为我想给网友们一个忠告。就是:好事,不要因为小就不做;坏事,不要因为小就去做。虽然我们今天做的可能不算什么,但不要因为“数量小”而使我们退缩做好事。


今天的活动真留给我深刻的印象。上帝永远保佑那些孤儿们。(◕‿◕ ✿)

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